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Tipsy Pilgrim has previously covered these and other cultures’ ways of rating one’s sexual conquests.“You’d think, after a first kiss, that there were only two possibilities,” says Mourad Zeggari in his blog entry on dating in the United States.“On the other hand, if nothing has happened by the fourth date, you can start to worry.” Terrafemina says that sex is generally on the third date, and Rue89 says it’s on the fourth.Americans describe their degree of sexual activity with bases (from baseball), in contrast to the French vitesses (switching into various gears).Perhaps that they have not found the person they are looking for yet. Either way, in my experience, Chelsea does not expect perfection. This, from what I have experienced, seems to actually be somewhat true.
But, in my experience, this does not hold true at all.“Parodoxically, in this clearly monogamous context, it’s not cheating to have various overlapping romances during the dating period,” says Terrafemina.“You can go out with three, four or even more people.” “Dating” is defended by Laure Danglade, a French writer with a novel on the subject. […] Americans don’t want to close any doors until they’re really sure that they’re attached to someone.” The French pickup artist site French Touch Seduction also gives the behavior a thumbs up, saying it avoids the “hypocritical pretense of being exclusive from the moment of the first kiss”.It will probably be a “French kiss” — and yes, “Americans actually use this expression,” notes Mathilde.The French, incidentally, don’t linguistically fob off their slobberier makeouts as an import.