Boys scared of dating
In these arrangements, you’ll notice that when one side starts to stray, the other side will undermine them.
If the guy starts getting himself together, the girl will find some way to subtly undermine his progress – usually through comfort, but sometimes through less pleasant means.
I also knew it carried a lot of implications, showing her how serious I was, that I too had great expectations for our future (and I did). I forget what she said which prompted my response, but I remember stopping at stop sign, and responding with "I am falling in love with you." I know she must have known that anyway, but I will never forget the expression of shock and surprise on her face after having said it. Now if only it could create harmony over the TV remote control....
I knew we had hurdles to cross too, and I was scared of them as well. It's human nature to be a bit scared when it comes to love regardless of the sex of said person.
So now we’re at this point: Girl has poured months or of love and obsession into this guy, hoping he’ll one day come around.
Guy has become emotionally dependent on the girl for her love and support, but he knows in his heart that the situation isn’t what he actually wants.
After all, he feels better when she’s there versus when she’s not. She aims to bring him comfort and relief from his painful and tragic life.
I was driving her home, and as we approached her house she declared to me that she wanted to keep driving around, that she was not ready to go home yet.
So we drove around the neighborhood at 3 AM, now Christmas morning, looking at all the lights.
She started running through them like a laundry list. Scary to put them out there not knowing how they would be returned. I have and if it comes around for me again I think I will be a bit scared. Even more so if you've been hurt a lot it tends to make you a bit gun shy. It's human nature to be a bit scared when it comes to love regardless of the sex of said person. Men may get hit with the emotional thing once and going forward it depends on how the woman treats him.
So I told her how I felt, that although there was a lot we would have to see if it worked out, and nothing is assured at that point and plenty to be scared about, that I did love her and that I felt she was worth the risk of my feelings and emotions to give it a shot. Scary to take the chance to see if more could grow from them, and risk being crushed if it didn't. The emotions take over, And one can feel overwhelmed. Thinking about the person all the time, That watching the clock counting the hours to when you can see them again. Even more so if you've been hurt a lot it tends to make you a bit gun shy. I agree - regardless of gender - some people get scared when they fall in love. If a woman breaks a mans heart once all women to an extent will have to pay after that..