You don't want to see pictures of food all day, even though you understand they come from a place of pride and passion.You don't want to talk about restaurants, in general.Aside from the reaction from others, here's a few other things I've experienced thanks to my boyfriend's chosen career.
Ugh." If I felt that way about dating a writer, I just wouldn't.
– Dating a Chef The summary of this letter is that you're dating a chef – even though there is no part of you that wants to be dating a chef.
You're in the hospitality industry yourself, so you understand the hours, but you still resent this guy's schedule.
I would ask why you're dating this guy at all, but the answer is in the first sentence of your last paragraph.
Physical amazingness counts for a lot, but it doesn't make up for general incompatibility.