Chinese girls dating foreigners
Obviously the black guy is the only person who can truly know what it’s like to be a black guy right?
Also a black guy who’s gone to Denny’s many many times would have even a more accurate opinion on the matter.
Communicating with another person who does not speak your language or speaks it poorly is a challenging task that even guys who are very good with girls will struggle with.
Talking slowly, removing words (like determiners), and using non-verbal communication (facial expression, pointing) adds an entire level of challenges.
Even if one argues it’s “easier” for a white guy in some aspects, there are definitely many “great walls” that make it very “not easy” and therefore offset the alleged advantage.: Although it’s not always the case, anyone who’s approached or attempted to date Asian girls has been faced with language barrier issues.
Language is something all of us take fully for granted, and attempting to approach, date, or seduce a girl who speaks little or *no* english is the furthest thing imaginable from “easy”.
This, in my opinion, is the most challenging reality of approaching and dating Asian girls.
In the East, girls have extreme pressure to “appear” pure, clean, polite and innocent.
There are some big obstacles you’ll be faced with being a “white guy” in Asia.
Between watching online porn, usually involving Japanese school girls, and playing Quake 3 Arena, sometimes I’d post on forums.
I’d browse video game forums, digg, 4chan, and many others — one thing I’d hear from time to time is that Fast forward to my first time actually going to Asia, and this “it’s easy for white guys” mantra was even said by the manager (a Japanese man) of the guest house I was going to be living in. He basically said, Two of my friends were tall, good looking and fit guys — like with abs and everything. After each night we’d all hang out in the “common room” at our guest house and talk about our night, and this was really fun because it was like a mastermind group. I was having fun and did meet a lot of awesome girls.
Another example of this would be kissing or hugging in public, which is considered taboo in Japan; even established couples may not do it.
When approaching/dating white girls for example, heavy eye contact, flirty touching, sexual humor, and even kissing in public are rarely a problem — all of these are common things between two fully Westernized white people.