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S.—considering the birth rates and immigration rates—there are slightly more men than woman in the population per age group.Also, traditionally it has been acceptable for younger women to date men who are considerably older; and by considerably I mean about 10 years older.Two California cops prowling for dates are being investigated for allegedly looking up women they found on dating sites on law enforcement databases.It’s believed both of the veteran officers with Fairfield Police Department, who were outed by a detective in June, abused their position to search police databases and brazenly surfed dating sites such as Tinder and e Harmony while on-duty. Stephen Ruiz and Detective Jacob Glashoff would compare their Tinder results and would screen women with their criminal record or look up where they lived “in front of everybody," a detective alleged.If you wouldn't want your best friend to do it, you shouldn't either. However, my agency has only about 50 officers and the rumor mill has been so out of hand.. Im just struggling with everything and don't even know what to do anymore. Just so confused I think you summed it up pretty well.I have 15 yrs on in the biggest PD & I don't date cops, so I totally understand. It is exactly what you said, a notch on the belt or an intimidation factor.They feel that if they were men, they would be considered heroes for their chosen occupation, but as women they are just doing something to upset their partner. For me personally, I was a divorced mom when I became an officer. It felt like men were looking for a challenge or they wanted to be able to put an "X" in the box on their bucket list that reads, "Dated a Cop." Some of our challenges are obvious—we can't date criminals or our bosses, and sometimes these seem to be the only people around.
Detectives also reported finding screenshots of police databases on Glashoff’s phone a month into the investigation.“She has a DUI or is suspended,” the Fairfield detective overheard Ruiz say to Glashoff in front of other officers.On another occassion, he heard Glashoff say: “She lives too far out of the area.” Criminal charges have not been filed against either of the men pending the results of an outside investigation.For me I'm tired of dating women who have this fantasy of finding the " Prince Charming".Because guest what, there is no such thing as "Prince Charming". My final thought is that if gonna date a woman, date a female cop for godsake; it will do you some good.