Dating online for college students
Bidon said he thinks online dating looks more attractive to upperclassmen because older students are more familiar with the difficulties involved in balancing academics, social life and dating.
“You start to realize, as you keep moving up through the years in college, how little time you have to do everything,” Bidon said.
The website’s opening phrase isn’t particularly unique. Various completions of the phrase flashes across the screen in neon pink: words like “study buddy,” “adventure,” “girl friend,” “friend,” “free dinner,” “wife,” “husband,” and of course “eternal love.” Sounds like your typical or E-Harmony slogan, right? The site was founded by Columbia University students Balazs Alexa and Jean Meyer last November.
“I think a lot of people have reservations, and I don’t necessarily disagree,” Bidon said.
On the other hand, many of the men of the Business School bemoaned a lack of women. Initially only accessible to twenty schools, including Columbia, Harvard University, MIT and New York University, the site launched at 140 more schools nationwide this month. And it doesn’t necessarily generate same-school dates, either. Being a college student—and thus being part of a larger community—fosters trust.
However, despite the fact that the site was launched in a similar manner to that of Facebook, the creators insist that it will remain different because they will never go public.
Senior Tim Bidon began using Grindr a few years ago to meet other people both platonically and romantically.
He said the relatively anonymous nature of apps like Tinder and Grindr can lend themselves to casual encounters.