Dating site for cancer survivors
Having cancer or a history of the disease can make the search for a relationship seem intimidating.
Social worker Barbara Golby gives advice for restoring confidence, setting expectations, and disclosing disease history and shares resources for cancer patients and survivors looking to jump into the dating scene.
A cancer diagnosis can shake people’s self-confidence, making them feel betrayed by their body or as if they don’t have as much control over their future as they once did, Ms. This loss of confidence can make it harder to pursue a relationship.
Start to rebuild your confidence by reminding yourself what you have to offer a potential partner and the traits you value most about yourself.
The decision to disclose your disease is highly individual.Sure there is a chance of recurrence and that may be something to be concerned about but who is to say the next person you date is not about to become seriously ill. Maybe I should have starting introducing him as my boyfriend, "the Transplant Body"...?I am more concerned with how a man handles his current health. I won't even go into how he would go on and on and on and on about his nutrition regimen....Golby explains.“For some people, the right moment is after two or three dates.For others, it’s after two or three months,” she says. They don’t want to feel they’re hiding the cancer, but they don’t want cancer to be the first thing someone knows about them.” Before the big reveal, do a trial run with a close friend to practice what you’re going to say.