Dating taking things slow
One of my life projects is learning how to date slowly. It has to do with learning how to establish boundaries at the onset of a relationship and progressively allowing a person to enter into the inner sanctum of your heart as you move from strangers to trusted friends and lovers over time.
I bought this book in order to learn how to avoid falling in love with jerks. Like, really getting, in a visceral, vivid way, that time is, y’know, a . For all of the new-agey “time is an illusion” stuff that you might hear me spout sometimes, the nondual truth is that time both does and does not exist. They ended up dating for several years until she died of a medical complication.My friend would have married her if their time wasn’t cut short by misfortune.