Don’t try to buy your way or shag your way into someone liking you.
One could potentially leave your wallet empty and the other could leave you emotionally empty.
Don’t date if you are already involved with someone.
This is a surefire way to create unnecessary drama.
You may think you come across as independent and self-assured but actually you’re coming across as bitchy, aloof, confrontational, or aggressive. There is nothing wrong with saying ‘no’ and it means that you don’t have to act happier than you feel. I’m not saying that people don’t mean it when they say it, but often these three words get uttered because people want to move the relationship to where they think it should be.
Remember that whilst you may think you mean it, it’s best to only say these words when you have all of the building blocks in place for a good relationship.
If you date from an unhappy place when you already have low self-esteem, you will invite men into your life that reduce your self-esteem even further and cater to the insecurities that you already feel. Baggage Reclaim is a guide to learning to live and love with self-esteem by breaking the patterns that stand in your way.For more than two decades Amy Sherman has been working in the helping field, inspiring others to live their best life.She has a master's degree in counseling/psychology from Vermont College and has worked with adults, teens and couples struggling with personal and professional issues that have kept them from the happiness and joy they deserve.Either you’re greedy or just plain foolish but should the person you’re already involved with find out, you’ll look like a bitch no matter what your reasons. Games really shouldn’t enter into the dating and relationship arena unless they’re in the bedroom.Otherwise playing games creates unnecessary drama by manipulating people and the outcome of situations.