Frustrated with dating life
Vague instructions abound as well ("improve yourself"). i've walked up to full groups of girls by myself not giving a ****.I've said it many times but if I could somehow remove that need to, well, feel loved then my life would be much some friends, go to the bars in a group. sometimes i just do it to chat and dont even try and get any numbers.I've been to a bar once at AM and most of the girls there are either with a boyfriend or with a gigantic group of other girls. I'm not looking to date hot girls but just average girls.It's just shocking to find how hard it is to find a girlfriend.sit next to a cute girl in class and strike up a conversation.get to know her a bit and ask if she wants to study sometime. youll get shot down in the process but it happens to everyone just gotta keep trying.
If you're sitting together might as well talk about something. These girls don't come here for the coffee, they come here for the specialty coffee, and they come for the frills and sometimes even the prestige associated with a particular specialty coffee shop. Her favorite drink and why she likes it over regular coffee, how does it make her feel and so on.The whipped cream, the cherry on top, how the blend of the coffee with the different liqueurs reminds you of a hot and steamy Latin love dance stimulating your taste buds beyond comparison etc.I guess while you are at the library you can pick up some books on gourmet foods and specialty drinks to learn the language fine critics use to describe them.Some people say do this, then others counter that it's a terrible idea, then a third party comes up with their own thoughts, and you suffocate from the information overload.Some will say to use PUA techniques while others say to just be yourself.