Girls with no dating experience
Do you remember the girl that made you feel the way that no one else could?The energy, excitement and sexual tension that could never fade away. All night…Imagine being with this dream girl, getting along just perfect, deeply in love, and having passionate sex every day.I know I'm not a model by any means, but I'm not ugly.I think I'm witty, smart, kind, and a lot less awkward than my friends (my group is composed of nerds, LGBTQ, Asians, or a combination of any of those categories.) That said, that's probably a factor of why I'm inexperienced, in addition to me being busy with school and all my ECs.The media has done a great job at making you believe in the erroneous assumption that money will get you your dream girl. If you spend too much money on a woman or do too many favors for her, you are subtly telling her that your pocketbook is ALL YOU HAVE TO OFFER.When you use money to get a woman out to nice dinners and to buy her gifts too early in the relationship, the woman will begin to think the man is trying to BUY her. Personality is the key to being good with women and dating. Deep down, women are attracted to your personality more-so than any other trait of a man.
You think you can’t create that same connection with another girl, so you settle for less than you deserve and you don’t even know it. Furthermore, attraction isn’t something you decide upon—it’s an uncontrollable reaction to the right qualities. When you hit the right emotional triggers, the attraction follows.YOU NEED TO REMOVE THE SCARCITY MENTALITY FROM YOUR LIFE AND SWITCH TO THE ABUNDANCE MENTALITY. There is more than one girl that you can have this feeling with. And you can date these women if you’d only kill the inner nice guy inside of you and take women off the damn pedestal you hand crafted out of gold for her. Check this out: Let’s say you meet a chill guy as a friend and then after only a few days he started buying you a bunch of shit and paying for all your food and drinks. It allows women to recline into the comfort you lavish them with, put their foot in your mouth that gives too many damn compliments, buys too many gifts, always being available and lets her walk all over you. Games are fun and challenging, and that’s why you should be more playful. There are no if’s, and’s, or but’s…when you hit her emotional attraction triggers she will be sexually attracted to you. One surefire way to kill the attraction impulse before it grows is to appear worried about whether or not she likes you (lack of confidence, scarcity mentality, pedestal thinking). When a woman senses that you’re a tough catch, your value increases in her eyes. It’s the law of the universe (or did I just make that up).Then texts to make sure you got home ok, and “likes” all your facebook posts. Too early man…Always be a gentleman, yet don’t be a little bitch. Beautiful women are used to men fawning over any sign of interest from them. She doesn’t want the guy that any pretty girl can sway—she wants the one that can’t be tamed, the wild one, the one who couldn’t care less about the girls that come and go. Go after what you want in life and don’t let anything stop you. Women want men who will change the world around them.It’s not a bad thing to be soft inside, but just be aware that women are not necessarily ATTRACTED to the soft, limp man until she’s first seen the HARD side of him.Because when you’re soft (expressing feminine character), you put the woman above you on a pedestal (forcing her to take on the masculine role).