Internet dating rules for women
Indeed, if you’re serious about finding a partner, it’s ok – and even necessary – to work at that goal.It doesn’t make the love you find any less worthy or any less real. I thought I was an emotionally stable human being before this — that theory has since been challenged. Praying for wisdom and grace for us all as we walk this out. This year has been my initiation into all things online dating, and let’s just say that the tears factor has been exponential. How can you turn an awkward first date with the man of your dreams into the relationship you’ve dreamed of? But exactly how do you find out without asking him outright and getting a look like you’ve just asked him to marry you?
It’s like putting a non-refundable down payment on a used car without even checking under the hood.
Yes, it seems so right and loyal and kind to only date one person at once, but let’s remember something: This person is a stranger.
I don’t care how much info they have on their profile — they are a stranger. If one pursues you consistently, faithfully and asks to be exclusive, then be exclusive.
Just be prepared for its addictive, drug-like pull.
I recommend strong doses of exercise, friend time and (honestly) time of humility before God so that it doesn’t become an idol in your heart and mind. Don’t do the exclusive thing until you have the “exclusive” conversation.