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If she leans toward you, naturally move in a little (I said a little, don’t bump heads), to acknowledge her invitation, and give positive confirmation, you are interested too. It can convey honesty, interest, and many other positive characteristics.
And, of course, it is ‘the window to the heart’ (and all that stuff! This is not a ‘stare-out’ (like in the school playground).
A few other questions to give you a hint: ’what do you enjoy doing on the weekends?
’, or ’have you found any good restaurants in town lately? Remember, try to keep it relevant to you, something you can relate to. Make a connection, so she remembers you; let her start to feel you may be ‘the one‘; plant that seed.
If her question doesn’t come, then try to avoid the silence becoming uncomfortable. Notice, again, by remaining silent, she has invited you in, to take control of the date. So, it’s your job to ensure this beautiful person with you now, can have what she most desires ….. We are not asking random, or the usual contrived questions here; such as ‘What do you do? Here’s where you should prepare a little; we are looking for something to connect with, something to suggest we are compatible; and, luckily, time is short, so we only need one.
Obviously, think about what you enjoy doing, don’t make it too specific, something like, ‘do you like to travel?
Potentially, if there is a subtle connection to a question like this, she is already dreaming of laying on a beach in paradise - with you!Allow her to ask her question; it’s likely she has one prepared.Answer the question briefly, and move on to secret 6. Remember, you are both here for the same reason - to get a date.Check out the first three secrets, to stop you getting eliminated in the first few moments. This is as much about the posture as it is about the state of mind. This is about looking more relaxed in a room full of nervous, anxious singles. The thing I love about breathing and smiling, apart from relaxing me, is that it is infectious - yes, your potential date can feel it too.Some secrets will come instantly, but most, I suggest you practice a little beforehand. Fortunately, there is something we can do about it, and looking around the room there is a lot of guys slouching - already you stand out from the crowd (don’t worry, they are all checking you out! In this situation, it is common for us to hold our breath or breathe very shallow. Bring your attention to your belly-button, breath in and your stomach rises, breath out and it falls (like a baby! When you enter the room, avoid looking awkward, or like a lost child.