My boyfriend still checks his online dating profile
For the last few months this has been by far the question I’ve received most often from readers.
I had touched on a similar topic last year in my post my boyfriend has kept his online dating profile active.
Once you’ve decided to get a clearer idea of where your relationship stands, I recommend trying to start conversations as naturally as possible over a 2 to 4 week period.
Try not to force them but at the same time you will want to look for opportunities let him know that you need to know where you stand with him.
My issue comes with him still having his profile up, and with my curiosity getting the best of me, I check almost everyday just to see when he last logged on – seems to be every few days or so.
I haven’t said one word about it since but I am wondering how long to wait.
First off let me say that many men keep their profiles active even though they are interested in the woman they are regularly dating.
Men are slower to commit and many also need their ego “stroked”.
Silly logic aside, I would ask any reader who has this issue the same thing I asked the woman who contacted me: are the two of you EXCLUSIVE and have you both made it clear that you are only interested in dating each other?
Until the conversation happens, I would say it is fair for a guy to keep his profile up.