Play the Field"It's important to be in more than one community," Davis says."It's like being in more than one social circle." She suggests joining one mainstream site (say, e Harmony or Match.com) as well as one niche service, such as Cupidtino, which brings Apple-product obsessives together, or the unapologetically elitist Sparkology (the site's men—but not its women! "Changing sites from time to time, and then revisiting, is the best strategy," says Davis. Ace Your Profile"Your user name is going to inspire them to click," says Davis, who suggests a terminology mash-up (e.g., Sporty Smile).
And save the sarcasm: "Instead of seeming witty and clever, those women just sounded angry."3.
For her own search, Webb listed 72 qualities, ranging widely from "Likes cities, hates suburbs" to "Mac person PC person." Davis suggests eliminating qualities common to "any successful relationship, like 'honesty' and 'trustworthiness'....
Instead, focus on attributes that would specifically appeal to you, such as 'thrill seeker'."5.
Instead, I was that overly high-strung type-A personality...
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