Players on online dating sites
If they are in a relationship, or married, they will suddenly just go offline in the middle of a chat.
They will give you some pic from 1000 years ago, or something they found online.
If you do a Google of their i.d., you will find they don't use it anywhere where it can be traced.
(Mine screwed up and I found out he was a disabled man who played with people online all the time, as well as on short wave radio).
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Rarely are they around on weekend nights, because they are off "playing" elsewhere and you'll probably find that they confuse things ~ things that would suggest you are someone other than you. I gave it to a woman a while back that I met on line and she ran a search and was able to get my address and a map showing where I lived and the names and address of my neighbor.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... If you find they are totally misrepresenting themsleves ......... It's hard to tell with some, others are just not skilled at the whole game. so now I only give out my cell #well i have been on this site a year or so.
so you don't invite some unstable, confused or psychotic person into your life who has made a mess of their life.
Being new-ish to the online dating scene I have some concerns. To me, that is still married, you'll have to decide that for yourself. verygreeneyez is right about the phone thing (they hate talking on the phone) and they are chatting with a number of different women at the same time as they are chatting with you. Jamieberry , yes the "pattern" is the dead giveaway!! I also must say..there are a LOT of .many "players'' so much so.im just tired of it all. I hate not being able to trust people until they prove otherwise.that would be my tip..
Players are no different online from the way they are in the real world....
some of them are really obvious~so obvious it's laughable.
They don't want you, they just want their perverted pleasures.
Some of these guys are sooo good at schmoozing, it's really hard to tell on-line.