Rules of gay dating
Let this be your new mantra: Everything and nothing is a date."You'll be missing out on all sorts of opportunities to connect with guys if you're simply waiting for them to ask you out," Massa says."Your gaggle is the group of guys who you might not be 'dating' or in a defined relationship with, but who fulfill some sort of need in your life," Massa explains."They are helping you figure out who you are, what you want, and what type of man you ultimately desire." These dudes can include The Hot Sex Prospect, The Career Booster, and The Ex-Boyfriend Who's Still Around.
We came up with the idea for a self-help dating book called The Rules after many, many dinners with single girlfriends at the now-defunct Sung Chu Mein, a Chinese restaurant on the Upper East Side in New York City—it was sort of like Sex and the City, but before Sex and the City!
Every interaction counts, from the conference room to G-chat to the soccer field.
Start seeing technology as a useful tool to get to know guys better. Before you know it, your convos will be getting offline."Instead of trying to micromanage your love life, create open spots for men, planned or unplanned, to fill," Massa says. Until you do, a guy may not even realize you're into him.
Are you friendly with people who continually hurt you?
We’ll show you how to do The Rules on them so you stop suffering and have more time, energy and love. To schedule an in-person dating, makeover/clothes (yes, we clean out your closet!