Being dominant is not just an excuse to be sexually selfish. Back in my Craigslist ads, I would often post looking for a "true breast fetishist" who was interested in extended breast play sessions.I was looking for dudes who truly fetishized breasts and would be happy to spend a good hour just groping, grabbing and manhandling them with only the possibility of mutual masturbation in return. But what I quickly found is that pretty much any guy will respond to an ad like that, figuring "Hey, I like boobs," and hoping that they'll ultimately get laid. A physical therapist & Im real so I hope u r not fake. Am cute, clean , loving, beautiful , submissive, tolerant,nice,faithful , reliable, i do not smoke non drink, i have no kid and be ready for that if my man want. God fearing, kind, intelligent, down to earth, submissive, faithful, patient, good hearted, I love traveling, cooking, clubbing mountain hiking, like making friends, socializing, am a good listener, I love honesty and respect. My nameÂs Brianna BTW and I am a girl next door but a dirty lil freak. He reinforced my expectation that a "good dom" is respectful of boundaries and won't push them unless he knows it's something that the bottom is nervous, but curious about.Sometimes submissives have "soft" boundaries that we are potentially interested in exploring.Or, way worse, the dude who once "ordered" me to go find a woman for us to have sex with at the bar where we were having a drink."Go up to that girl and finger her," he suggested. And second, it's not really that easy for me to just go get a girl to have sex with us.
For men, this includes the genes for dominance and leadership, and for women the genes which affect your social sensitivity and submissiveness It seems that your success at speed-dating might be determined by your genes rather than shared interests and charm (image from Channel 4's First Dates pictured).I get off on providing sexual pleasure, but not exclusively.Our entire sexual encounter shouldn't consist of me giving you oral sex, and if it does, there's definitely not going to be another one.I may be submissive in the bedroom, but I'm anything but in my everyday life.There are lots of dominant men who fully embrace and understand this dichotomy but there are some who seem to think that my sexual proclivities mean they should be able to boss me around in any given social situation.